by Michael | Feb 12, 2025 | First steps
The other day, I had a familiar conversation with an individual whose life has been turned upside down and whose marriage is hanging by a thread because of their abusive behavior. “I know I have some issues to work on. I want to, I really do! It’s just hard!” they...
by Michael | Jan 15, 2025 | The Change Journey
“I don’t understand,” Liz complained. “Several people close to me have told me they’ve noticed big improvements in how I manage my emotions. Nevertheless, my partner keeps telling me that I’m no better than before. Why can’t he see my growth?” Brad nodded his head...
by Michael | Oct 15, 2024 | Domestic Violence - General
“My husband and I have been separated for a year because he was physically and emotionally abusive. Since then, I know he’s been working on changing—going to counseling, taking classes, etc. Even though my friends and family think it’s a terrible idea, I miss him and...
by Michael | Jan 15, 2024 | The Change Journey
In a group meeting the other day, someone asked about the change process. When might they start seeing results? How long will the change process take to finish? These are common questions for those beginning their work to stop harmful or abusive behavior. I totally...
by Michael | Nov 15, 2023 | First steps
There you are, at the starting line. You’ve realized, maybe because of some very painful experiences, that you need to change. It’s humbling to admit it, but you now see that you have acted in ways that are considered to be domestic violence or abuse. The cost...
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